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September is National Suicide Prevention Month: You Are Not Alone

Dr. Jacqueline Nelms

September is National Suicide Prevention Month: You Are Not Alone

Every September, we pause to honor lives lost to suicide, hold space for those who are hurting, and strengthen our commitment to hope, help, and healing. If you’re reading this and carrying a quiet weight, please know this: you are not a burden, your story matters, and there is a path forward.

At Mindful Elevation, we serve high-achievers, first responders, leaders, and everyday people who are used to being “the strong one.” Strength is not silence. Real strength is reaching for a hand when the road gets steep.

Why This Month Matters

Suicide Prevention Month invites us to speak openly about mental health, reduce stigma, and learn how to recognize when someone, and when we ourselves, need support. Conversations save lives. Compassion, offered to others and to ourselves, creates the conditions where healing becomes possible.

What Support Can Look Like

Support is not one-size-fits-all. It may look like:

  • A courageous conversation with someone you trust
  • Setting one micro-goal a day (eat, move, breathe, rest)
  • Asking for professional care (therapy, psychiatry, or your physician)
  • Coaching for structure, accountability, and values-aligned action
  • Community, because isolation     amplifies pain, and connection dilutes it

How Coaching Fits (and Where It Doesn’t)

Coaching is a powerful partner for building resilience, clarifying purpose, and creating sustainable daily practices. It is not a replacement for therapy or crisis care. In coaching, we’ll set practical goals (sleep hygiene, boundaries, stress-recovery rhythms, leadership mindset), track progress, and celebrate small wins that compound into change. When clinical support is needed, we’ll point you to licensed professionals and work alongside your care plan ethically and respectfully.

Gentle Practices You Can Start Today

  • Name it, don’t numb it: Use simple language for hard feelings, “Today I feel overwhelmed and lonely.” Naming reduces shame.
  • One square foot: Tidy a small space. Order outside helps settle the nervous system inside.
  • 3-3-3 reset: Three slow inhalations, three slow exhalations, three times.
  • Connect before you correct: Text a friend, step outside, or sit near someone you trust before trying to “fix” anything.
  • Gratitude with grit: Note one thing that’s hard and one thing that’s helping. Both/and builds honesty and hope.

 

With elevation and intention,
Dr. Jacqueline Nelms
Founder, Mindful Elevation: Strength & Resilience Within